And flames need fanning… — It is my good karma to have known love from the men in my life. From platonic love to carnal love to romantic love. After four years of being separated and subsequently divorced, I wondered if I have ever truly loved in return? While the memories blur throughout the passages…

Tears of shame, tears of grief. Tears of joy, tears of gratitude. All are sacred and all are welcomed. Tears are a display of vulnerability. An ability of our body to override the pride and allow emotions to be expressed. Some of us cannot cry. We just do not know…

Little practises that go a long way… — Mornings I dread the most. Often I used to wake up in a flurry with heart pumping to the blaring alarm then jumping into the shower and hastily putting my zombie self through work. Even after quitting, I still had not harnessed a fruitful routine and practise to set the…

Life’s spiralling journey… — Not marked by a wreath of roses; that is a coronation. Befitting someone who has willingly embarked on an initiation journey. What is it to be initiated? It is like the Tower card in Tarot. Something breaks, a meteor shitstorm, and you plunge down to the ground, deep into the…

Let me open with a brilliant quote from Jordan Peterson; “A harmless man is not a good man. A good man is a very, very dangerous man who has that under voluntary control.” Many people walk around thinking they are nice and good people based on a few self-proclaimed scanty…

My menstruation phase is my happy time. It allows me to take time out and just rest and honour the downward energies. I take a break off cooking and look forward to brewing my copious cups of herbal tea that warms the tums and support the bleed. Over the years…

Tinder is a marketplace. You go in with a grocery list, you will most likely exit with things you can build proper sustainable meals with. You wander in hungry and aimless, chances are you will be making bad decisions and stocking up on junk food. The dating world changed so…

To love and care for yourself is a self-ish process. Those who never asked themselves in all honesty what they feel, what they want, and what they need will deem these acts of personal devotion as self absorption. When you have poor boundaries, people setting up clear rules with you…

When I first quit my corporate job few years back, I had actually no idea what to do. I knew that my side business of tutoring would become a main source of revenue while I figured things out. After mingling with a few ladies who threw the idea of attending…